nose picking?

Today’s question is: Why is driving in the car a license to pick your nose?

Background: This one is for Brenda! I have wondered this myself, among other things people do while driving. Seriously, if you haven’t noticed, next time you are in your car (or on bike or foot at a traffic light) look around, you are bound to find a picker.
The thing about it is it’s never the nonchalant picking, it’s always the guy with half his finger up his nose. The mere thought of boogers make me gag (don’t go see Shorts if you’re like me, yikes, the booger scene is absolutely gag-able).
So what do you think? What’s so compelling about picking a big one while driving? All I know is I better not see them eating them! gag city.
August 30, 2009 @ 3:37 pm

exclusion?

Today’s question is: Would you ever invite someone with a food allergy over for dinner and serve the very food they were allergic too?

Background: Of course you wouldn’t serve the very thing someone was allergic to at dinner, would you? OMG that would be absurd. My husband has severe food allergies and I make sure to let our friends know if we are going for dinner. No one wants to be surprised about a food allergy. I mean wouldn’t you feel bad if you spent hours making some fabulous dish and then your friend showed up and told you he/she was allergic to half of everything you made? That would just stink, on so many levels.
The reason I bring this up is because of birthday treats at school. Everyone loves birthday treats right? I mean they are fun, they make a kid (the birthday kid) feel special and well lets face it sugar = happiness in our great nation. So, if one of the kids in the class has a food allergy how is it handled? Do the birthday kids consider the allergy and bring something into class that everyone can participate in? Do they think the best part of the birthday is bringing a treat and ‘sharing’ it with their friends at school? So if there is total disregard for even one kid with an allergy in the class is it still considered sharing? Is that what the birthday is about? Bringing in a treat that the birthday kid likes and to hell with everyone else? What is the birthday treat about exactly? Making one kid feel special while excluding other kids in the class? Is making one kid feel special more important than the feelings of the kids that are left out? I’m seriously curious about this. I do no prescribe to this belief. When my kids are in class with a kid with an allergy, if we are going to bring something in we make sure everyone can have it. I mean we do go to a PUBLIC school, and last I checked it’s not really ok to exclude kids on any level.
For instance:
1. can’t save seats in the cafeteria, because that’s excluding
2. can’t exclude people from games on the playground.
3. can’t save seats in the auditorium because that’s excluding.
I’m sure there is more. What I wonder is why it’s not ok to exclude people from these things but it’s perfectly ok to exclude away on the birthday treat front. How does this make sense?
Does anyone have the answer? What’s the point of trying to teach inclusion if we can’t include the allergy kids on the most coveted, most desired and most loved birthday treat?
August 28, 2009 @ 8:26 pm

dirty look?

Today’s question is: Why do people love to give dirty looks?

Background: Not that I couldn’t have a 100 stories to go along with this one, as I’m sure many of you have. The other day I was doing the pick up portion of our camp carpool. The whole dance camp has a car pick up lane. The carpool line lines up in this parking lot, behind parked cars. Now, me being me, I think, I hope the people who are parked here don’t get all irked that I’m parked right behind them if they want to leave. I figure, it’s been like this all summer, if they parked there they just don’t want to leave at 3pm. So, I’m sitting in line, I’m first and I’m waiting for the girls to exit the building. It’s very near 3pm and I’m looking toward the door to see if they are coming. Just as I see their heads get to the door, this older woman (think grammy age) is standing close to my passenger door looking at me through the window with a stern and dirty look.
I was shocked. I probably gave her a look like “what you looking at me like that for?” At that, she stomped (my perception) away into the very door my girls were coming out of. Clearly I wasn’t blocking her way out so what gives?
What’s up with people? If they aren’t hurting their little ones they are passing judgement on to innocent car pool moms.
August 26, 2009 @ 11:30 am

hurt me?

Today’s question is: Why would a mom cause bodily harm to her 2 year old daughter?

Background: This is not pretty, it’s actually unthinkable and shocking. I have a friend that works in a hospital outside of LA as a nurse. The other day she posted a message to a board I visit that said “I can honestly say I hate this person”. This story was attached:
Woman Charged With
Scalding Daughter
Updated: Wednesday, 19 Aug 2009, 6:04 PM PDT
Published : Wednesday, 19 Aug 2009, 1:44 PM PDT

Text Story by: CNS
Posted By: David Dain
Murrieta (myFOXla.com) – A mother of two with a history of child abuse pleaded not guilty today to inflicting corporal injury on a child and torture charges for allegedly forcing her 2-year-old daughter into hot water to punish the toddler.

Diana Vicky Estrada, 24, also faces domestic violence causing great bodily injury and serious felony allegations. She was arrested Sunday and booked at Robert Presley Detention Center in Riverside.

She faces life in prison if convicted on all charges.

Riverside County Superior Court Judge Judith Clark — who sentenced Estrada to probation and six months of jail time after she pleaded guilty to child abuse in 2008 — kept her bail at $1 million and ordered her back to court Sept. 11 for a felony settlement conference.

A preliminary hearing was tentatively set for Oct. 2.

According to court documents, Estrada’s original $50,000 bail was raised to $1 million under a penal code statute that calls for an increase in bail if a magistrate determines a domestic violence victim must be protected from a defendant, or if the defendant is a flight risk.

Deputies were called to investigate a possible child abuse case about 2 p.m. Sunday by staffers at an Urgent Care Clinic in Lake Elsinore, after the child was brought in with severe burns on her lower body, according to sheriff’s Sgt. Patrick Chavez.

The girl was later transferred to Arrowhead Regional Medical Center in Colton, which has a burn unit, Chavez said.

When investigators questioned the mother, she initially said her daughter accidentally fell into a hot bathtub in which she was cleaning curtains, according to Chavez.

“Upon further investigation, it was determined Estrada held the 2-year- old in hot water as a disciplinary measure,” Chavez said.

The child was apparently injured last Wednesday, and her burns became infected in the ensuing days, the sergeant said.

Estrada’s other daughter, who is 4, was taken into protective custody, Chavez said.

In 2008, Estrada pleaded guilty to child abuse with great bodily injury and serious felony allegations.

Authorities were called to Rancho Springs Medical Center in 2007, after she showed up with her older daughter, who was treated for a urinary tract infection, multiple bruises and dehydration.

Doctors who examined the child found evidence of healing fractures of both arms, with evidence that the limbs were broken at different times, according to sheriff’s officials.

Records indicate that the child had failed to thrive under the care of her mother, gaining only two pounds between Dec. 12, 2005, and March 10, 2006, according to a declaration in support of an arrest warrant prepared by sheriff’s Investigator Darin Gray.

After the investigation was begun and the child was put in the care of her maternal great-grandmother, she began gaining weight. Previously, when deputies began investigating the case, she had been too weak to stand or walk, Gray wrote.

Estrada was sentenced to 48 months probation and 180 days in jail on the weekend work release program. She also was required to take parenting classes and enroll in a program for child batterers.

A few months after her sentencing, Estrada asked for her work release to be modified to house arrest, then to house arrest in San Diego. In early 2009, the Judge Clark changed her jail term back to work release, though it was unclear why.

Estrada has since allegedly violated parole on the work release program and is scheduled for a probation violation hearing on Sept. 11, court documents show.
So a couple of days later the same friend mentions that the little girl may lose her legs. Her legs may actually not be able to be saved because after the mom burned the crap of out them she then did nothing to care for them for a week or so and by the time she took her to the urgent care it simply may be too late to save the legs. The two year olds legs.
I hate to pass judgement on people, but I seriously wonder what on earth a 2 year old could do that would require this sort of discipline? She’s two, a baby by most terms.
I think the mom must either be mentally unstable or is possessed by some special kind of evilness.
When I read this sort of thing I just wonder how people can be so mean to the innocent of the world. Sigh.
August 25, 2009 @ 12:41 pm

drivers?

Today’s question is: Why do people feel the need to yell at others while in their car?

Background: I was attempting to be on the ball this year and buy all my school supplies early. I went to the local Office Depot the other day to do just that. As I was pulling into the parking lot, which for the record is one way in and one way out, this older man began yelling at me from his car because of my “big truck”.
Now he wasn’t really yelling about the truck per se, it was more like mocking me “oh what do you think you’re so special? driving that big truck?”. Feeling completely irritated, because he was right there wasn’t really enough room for both of us in the in lane, I, ever so nicely, rolled down my window, to take more verbal abuse from the guy and kindly pointed to the “ONE WAY” sign and said “sir, it’s one way going in and you are going out”. To that he mumbled something and drove off.
I had the right of way, truck or no truck, but dang why do people just have to start yelling at you for no reason? I get that trucks can be a little annoying to people, but surely no less than a gas guzzling old cadillac boat like he was sportin’ (he should talk).
Pay attention to the road signs and stop yelling at people already!
August 13, 2009 @ 10:16 am

Wind Turbines?

Today’s question is:  Why are wind turbines so incredibly fascinating?

Background:  For the second year now when we head down to our friends lake house in rural Indiana we have to drive past these wind turbines.  Last year, they were just starting, I think I counted about 1oo turbines up or under construction as I drove alone with my kids on the way home (we took a different route, through St. Louis, MO, down there) to Chicago.    This year there are too many to count.  
If you haven’t seen wind turbines you must.  They make me want to stop, stick my kids at their foot and clip (pictures) away.  Of course you’d never get their vastness in a picture, even the picture above can not contain the enornmatiy of it each one….
When you look at this picture doesn’t it make you want to go there and see them in real life?  They’re in rural Indiana, just south of Kentland, about 2 hours outside of Chicago on Route 41.  It’s worth the drive it you want to see future in the making.
Aren’t they fascinating?  
(pictures taken while I was driving down the road, don’t tell anyone)
August 7, 2009 @ 9:51 pm

doggie?

Today’s question is:  Who brings their dog to a party?

Background:  Last night we attended a party.  The guy who threw the party doesn’t have a dog.  There was a dog at the party. 
 
One of the guests brought along his dog.  
Who does this?
Never in my life would I have thought there would be a need to add, leave your stinkin’ dog home please no dogs, to an invitation.  Nor would I ever consider bringing my little doggie to a party as my date.  
August 2, 2009 @ 1:59 pm